Happy or Unhappy It’s All Up To You

Use your empathy and understand

I’m on a bit of a rant today…

A journalist I recently spoke to complained about all the articles appearing everywhere on “how to be happy.”

He suggested writing an article on how to be unhappy instead.

Now, a street smart person isn’t stubborn and actually listens to advice. But, when you know someone is full of shit … Don’t be afraid to call them on it.

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I said, “Are you fucking crazy, man?”

Why would I want to write articles about being unhappy? Unhappiness is already the current state of most of the population. Thanks to “Journalists.”

Since the election of Donald Trump, I have never seen so many unhappy, depressed, sorry ass people in my entire life.

Many people have “victimized” themselves and blame Trump for everything that’s wrong in their lives.

Car won’t start? It’s Trump’s fault…

Stub your toe. Goddamn Trump…

I KNOW You KNOW people like this. They’re everywhere.

Love him or hate him, Trump has nothing to do with any of the joy or sorrow in your life. That’s all on you. If you are part of the “Resistance”, no one but others “resisting” give a damn.

Make new friends. Stop hanging around with people who bring you down.

Ever hear the saying, “Misery loves company?”

Is that how you want to live your life? In “misery?”

I talk to women, and they’re telling me “I’m not getting laid enough and the sex isn’t that good anymore. The guys I’m meeting aren’t manly enough.” “They don’t have a clue on what a woman wants and how she wants to be treated.”

Guys it’s not sexy being being negative.

You’ve got to project a positive vibe. Start by getting your ass in the gym each day. Sweat all that toxic energy out of your system & you’ll feel better & women will notice you more.

Put that addicting phone down and don’t look at it when you’re with real people.

Don’t be like this guy…


Guys are whining to me, “I’m afraid to approach women. I don’t know what to say or how to act. I’m too shy to get laid.”

The #MeToo movement has even slowed down the guys who know what a woman wants, but are now afraid of losing their jobs or reputations due to a complaint from a woman who was maybe sending out mixed signals.

This “journalist” went on to explain to me how searching for happiness is overrated, and it can only exist in combination with every other emotion.

And they wonder why we call them the #FakeNews? This “journalist” doesn’t have a clue on what’s going on in relationships in the real world.

(He’s probably not getting laid, either)

Change your Mindset if you want to change your life.

Stop blaming others and take full responsibility to where you are in life.

Be a person who has a lot of common sense and knows what’s going on in the world.

Use your empathy and understand what every type of person has to deal with daily and learn to understand all groups of people and how to act around them.

Biggest takeaway from this?

Change your mindset… Become the “Victor” NOT the “Victim.”

You want to become a winner?

You have to think like a winner.

Believe you can do anything.

And, more importantly, DO ANYTHING

If you react, they win If you respond, you win.

Seize the Day.